Cabin crew share their top secret tricks for keeping kids calm on flights

with kids, has long been a point of contention.

Recently, social media after a TikTok video prominently featuring an exasperated traveller and the antics of a young child behind her who couldn't stop kicking her seat garnered over 240k views.

The divisive clip reignited the long-standing debate among viewers as audiences were split over who should address the issue. While one user suggested confrontation was key: "You gotta be confrontational and tell them to stop, unfortunately", another proposed seeking cabin crew assistance: "Just call the flight attendant".

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Yet another user offered advice suggesting the direct involvement of the parent: "Just tell the mother to get them to stop".

Luckily, a cabin crew manager has now weighed in. Travel experts at conferred with Cabin Crew Manager, Francesca, and received insights into the preferred course of action by crew members, parents, and fellow passengers in such circumstances.

Delving deeper into aviation secrets that can be employed for maintaining mid-flight serenity, Francesca shared some insider tips with the travel company.

Cabin crew secrets for child management

Engaging activities as distractions: Francesca shares: "If the children are aged between three to four and are walking around, then we will get them to help with rubbish to distract them."

Incentivising positive behaviour: The cabin crew manager reveals another trick of the trade when it comes to flying with kids: "If kids are playing up, we will say that if they behave well, we can give them treats from the bar; however, this is at the cabin manager's discretion, so it shouldn't be expected."

Keeping one's cool: Francesca stresses the importance of remaining calm and shares: "We have to remain calm, considerate and approachable. We always put ourselves in the shoes of our customers."

Tips for parents

Supply numerous distractions: Sharing the gold-standard of in-flight tactics that can be deployed on kids, Francesca advises: "Parents should bring colouring books onto the flight, as bringing things that stimulate their minds will help the situation, and minimise children from getting agitated when flying".

Stash nutritious nibbles: It's important for parents travelling with kids to ensure their children are well-fed and snacking on healthy options. Francesca says: "Make sure your kids have eaten beforehand or have healthy snacks when flying. Snacks help to keep little ones settled and can be a nice treat to lift their mood."

Strategise slumber: The flight attendant shares another top tip: "Making sure to plan naps for your children is a useful tip, so children don't become tired and irritable. Planning your child's sleep in advance can ensure you are organised and feel prepared for long travel days."

Seat switcharoo

As a cabin crew manager, Francesca is all too aware of some passengers' demand for a seat switch, but asserts that shouldn’t be the default expectation. She explained: "Some passengers complain that they don't want to be seated near children, however, we remind them that families are also paying customers. If there are available seats, then we can move them there, however, passengers shouldn't presume they will be able to move, as the aircraft can often be full, with no spare seats available."